251119-SelfDoubtToSelfConfidence-Blog

Self-doubt can be a sneaky saboteur: it masquerades as caution, then quietly drains your momentum. We’ve all experienced it—looping thoughts of “Who am I to do this?” or “What if I mess it up?” that nudge us to overprepare, delay decisions, and second-guess even our strengths. Maybe you compare yourself to everyone else’s highlight reels, downplay your wins, or shrink your voice in rooms where you belong. It’s exhausting.

Self-doubt narrows your field of view so possibilities look like problems, and it can keep you playing small when you really long for more. The cost is real—lost time, muted creativity, missed opportunities, and a debilitating habit of outsourcing your authority to external approval. You’d never speak to a friend the way your inner critic speaks to you, yet you live with that soundtrack. The good news? That soundtrack isn’t the truth—and it can be changed.

In this episode of MagnifEssence in Motion, I chat with my friend and colleague Maggie Sarfo—international best-selling author, TEDx speaker, and CEO of Meres Consult. Together, we explore how self-doubt isn’t a flaw to fix, but a friendly nudge from within—a gentle knock on the door of your heart—inviting you back to your true essence. If you’ve ever felt like confidence was reserved for “other people,” you’ll discover that it’s not only available to you—it’s already within you, waiting to be expressed. And yes, we keep it real, actionable, and just a tiny bit playful. Confidence with a smile? We’re here for it.

Here are some of the key talking points we address:

  • Self-Doubt as a Signal. We reframe self-doubt as a friendly nudge to pause and realign with your true essence, not a flaw to fix. You’ll start seeing doubt as useful information you can work with.
  • Shifting the Inner Dialog. We share simple ways to swap the inner critic for a kinder, more empowering voice. You’ll hear language you can try right away—no forced positivity required.
  • Embodying Confidence Through Action. We show how small, repeatable steps build real confidence faster than waiting to “feel ready.” You’ll pick a tiny next move that lets you practice who you already are.
  • Living from Your Embodied Inner Self. We explore how reconnecting to your inner truth helps you move beyond fear and express your unique brilliance. You’ll learn how joy, values, and boundaries keep you aligned.
  • Neuroscience Meets Notebook. We touch on how journaling supports memory consolidation, emotional processing, and cognitive flexibility—so when you write, you’re not just venting; you’re rewiring how you see yourself and your possibilities.

Check out the recording and walk away with grounded tools, a kinder inner voice, and a clear next step you can take right away. If you’ve been waiting for a sign to trust yourself a little more, consider this your friendly knock on the door. We’re there—cheering you on, sharing what works, and reminding you that your essence is not something to find; it’s something to embody.

Please watch the recording, and remember to leave a comment in the space below.

Episode Guest

Maggie Sarfo is a UK-based international best-selling author, TEDx speaker, and CEO of Meres Consult. With 20+ years of experience in personal growth, leadership, and transformation, she advises and mentors individuals, entrepreneurs, and leaders globally.

Maggie speaks at business events, facilitates wellbeing retreats, and is an Akashic Records consultant. As the creator of CreateBalance™ program, her latest book is The One Secret to Happiness. She enjoys tennis, yoga, and family beach holidays.

For more information, visit https://meresconsult.com/

About the author 

David D McLeod, DD, PhD, CMLC

As a certified master life coach with a PhD in Metaphysical Sciences and a DD in Holistic Personal Coaching, David creates and shares powerful life mastery tools which enable adult men and women to transcend triggers, challenges, and obstacles so that they can express and experience the fullness of who they really are and thereby manifest truly magnificent and fulfilling lives.

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked

{"email":"Email address invalid","url":"Website address invalid","required":"Required field missing"}